Happy for the Weekend

I may be the only person that willingly rises early on Saturday & Sunday morning. 6:30am, I am up letting the dogs out, calling my mom, cleaning up and enjoying the quiet in the house. Sure I have the house to myself ALL week from 845-330, but itʻs just not the same. During the week I have to get up, out of bed and TRY to get three grouchy monsters showered & out the door. Not on the weekends. On the weekends I get to enjoy a slow morning, quiet time with my mom and I have the added bonus of the monsters waking when THEY want and being happy most of the day! Maybe that is what makes weekends so good for me, time spent with a HAPPY Family, MY happy family. My well rested, un-rushed family. Although I am not sure how I married a night owl, had three kids and I am the ONLY morning person in the family:) Most nights now I am in bed asleep before ALL of them! Itʻs over now, I here a monster stirring...It is 915 so I guess I cannot be too disappointed:)

Who Are My "People"

This morning I was texting with my mom and we starting talking about how few "people" we we have in our lives. What I noticed is that neither of us have many "people" anymore. The other thing I noticed is that the past 6 months has really shed a light on what kind of "people" I want in my life and what to give my time to. Because Time is the one thing you can never get back, I donʻt want to waste a single moment on people that donʻt deserve it. Mortality is a scary thought, but a much needed one every so often. When it gives you that "Why am I doing this" thought, it is time to take a look. So I did. Thank You to MY "People"!

Itʻs Not Personal-

What does that even mean? Tell me then how one is to take rude, mean ,self-involved people if not personal? As a person that has bad days and mood swings, I know I can take things out on the wrong person, but I still would NOT tell them not to take it personally. You should take it personally. Take it personally that someone either thinks so much of you that you are a safe place for them to let-off-steam or that they think so LITTLE of you that treating you like total and complete CRAP makes them feel like a bigger person. Take it either way, but either way it is personal.